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jangan lecehkan kami!

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Kemarin aku bersuara mengenai plagiarisme yang menuai pro dan kontra, hingga membuat gaduh satu angkatan. Kali ini, aku kembali bersuara mengenai hal yang dianggap tabu dan bisa saja dinilai "lebay" oleh sebagian mahasiswa di kampus.  Ya, aku berbicara tentang pelecehan seksual.  Apa itu pelecehan seksual? Dilansir melalui Wolipop, Komisioner Subkom Pemantauan Komnas Perempuan, Siti Aminah Tardi menjelaskan bahwa pelecehan seksual adalah perbuatan yang dilakukan dalam bentuk fisik atau nonfisik yang tidak dikehendaki dengan cara mengambil gambar, mengintip, memberikan isyarat bermuatan seksual, meminta seseorang melakukan perbuatan yang demikian pada dirinya, memperlihatkan organ seksual baik secara langsung atau menggunakan teknologi, melakukan transmisi yang bermuatan seksual dan melakukan sentuhan fisik.  Masih banyak definisi lain yang bisa kita semua cari tau bersama. Namun, untuk menyelaraskan pemahaman kita mengenai pelecehan seksual yang akan aku angkat dalam tuli...

desperation

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  I lost a friend. He committed suicide after had been fighting against  society  depression and anxiety for several years. He's a nice guy, a warm-soft-hearted, and a caring person. But the world is just being too harsh for him. Last year, he came out. He told me that he is gay. "Is being a faggot, weird?" he asked. "No, because I normalize it," I answered. He continued telling me the detail about his sexual orientation. He was talking and crying at the same time, I could feel his pain. Being different and unaccepted by society sucks.  "I've got so much hate because I'm different. They don't even want to know my reason. O h, see he is a boy with the vagina, he ain't masculine, he is bad at sports. Look! He cried. Bruh, boys don't cry. "  Those words turned him into anxiety. His family doesn't give him a safe place called home. They make it worse.  One day, he tried to speak up. But people judged him even more.  It's easy fo...